Hello, World! Thanks for visiting. I am a sugjester. I am not here to be a social influencer. I am here to be a life sugjester – providing introspection for you to perhaps incrementally investigate and possibly incorporate into your individual identity. It is illegal (or it should be IMO) to impress or imprint these ideas into your ideology. Instead, enigmatically, I encourage you to enjoy an exciting edventure1 as you embark through my ever-seeking-to-be-better-while-trying-to-figure-out-what-it-all-means-and-why-we-are-here-stuff.
Whew! Anyway, welcome :) <3 I got a little carried away there, but I am so glad that you are here. I am not sure how you found this place, but, frankly, it does not matter. Surely, you are here because you are at least a little curious. What is going on? What are people talking about? Well, right now, we are talking about the here and now. Right now, I am curious if you can ask yourself: what am I about to do next – the correct thing, the best thing, or at least an optimal thing? A comfortable, healthy thing is fine here, too, IMO, as long as there are also still points of progress punctuated for you periodically in your life.
Right here and right now, how can you start being the best you possible? What is at least one or two things that you can do differently today to begin self-improvement?
For me, a goal or hope of mine here is to emotionally, psychologically, and spiritually stimulate you via perplexing perspectives to ponder as time permits. Perhaps you can peruse these posts and pick what feels perfectly poignant for your present position on your personal path. Which part(s) pile(s) up productively and progressively? Please proceed to parse through my plethora of planned productions as they are presented. Please proceed and profit with improvements to your personality as you see fit and as I try to perfect some polite pontifications without sounding pompous if possible. After all, my purpose is philanthropic. Please proceed to prioritize peace and prosperity for this planet’s population. Please, and thank you :) <3
Maybe it is wise. Maybe it is dumb. Time will tell.
My HOT2 Promise
I choose to cultivate my YINergy as calmly and coolly as I can. Some days, I will do much better at this choice than others, but that is my goal and what I choose to work on.
My promise is that I will choose to show up each and every day, moving forward, for the remainder of my life. I am so tired, so fed up, and so frustrated…
I am tired of not choosing to speak my mind enough nor more, hence WiseDumbTime.
I am fed up with the status quo, so I choose to try and do something about it, in a balanced, constructive, and healthy way, from the confines of my personal lane.
I am so frustrated with seeing so many injustices that have gone unanswered and unresolved. We can do better. I expect better out of us all. It is what I choose to believe. Here and now, I will accept your current best that you are capable of giving. Perhaps a post or two from this site over the upcoming weeks, months, years can help, though. Maybe you will find ways to positively push your best even further forward over time.
I would love to encourage all of us to try and practice something similar if it feels right, to you and only you. In my opinion, it does not matter what anyone else thinks. What do you think and feel as you read through this page? After all, no one else can or should be living your life for you, right? Y’all, as you may be gathering, I will not shy away from admitting that I am also so YANGry. It is not a secret that I will hide here. In fact, my goal is to have zero secrets whatsoever. Are there particular parts of my past that I wish were not there? Emphatically, yes. However, I cannot go back and change any of that now (no special hot tub here). It is all over and done with, for better or for worse. Instead, I choose to listen to those lessons in order to learn from them. Then, I choose to do my best moving forward in the hopes of never repeating any of them again. Anything else would just be insane.
I am not here to yell angrily at clouds, though. From my lane, I choose to carve out this corner of the web. In my heart of hearts, I know, truly and honestly, that I am Kenough.
I guess you could say that my dream job is BeaCH3 :)
Maybe it is wise. Maybe it is dumb. Time will tell. <3
Yours Truly,
a sugjester