I mourn for the copycats and posers, those inauthentic mimics who memorize movements instead of making memories. Curate compassionate creations or manufacture more mundane? Repeat the rote from others or ritualize what really reminds you of what resonates with your deepest sense of self? Authenticity allows you to be your own amazing and unique individual; it can help you realize that there is no need to feel like you must fit into a mold or follow along with a mob in order to mingle with the masses.
The real religion is not imitation of anybody else; it is a search to find out your own authentic self, who you are.
-Rajneesh
I know it can feel important at times to try and fit in. That pressure can be very intense depending on the people around you. What does that say, though, if the peer pressure is strong? It feels like a breach of guardrails to me. Mob mentality is basically the complete opposite of authenticity. Would you rather lie to yourself or lie to others? Now, ideally, we should lie to no one. However, it takes a big, healthy dose of confidence to boldly move through life with an unapologetic sense of true and honest authenticity. I encourage you to work on it because I believe it is the best way. Remember, “to thine own self be true.”
It never ceases to amaze me; we all love ourselves more than other people but care more about their opinion than our own.
-Marcus Aurelius
No matter what, people are going to like you or not like you. So be authentic, and let them like you or not for who you actually are.
-Kobe Bryant
Do you truly enjoy following an earthly idol or adhering to the current trend or fad? Would it be better to reconnect with your true self? How about, when you were a kid, what sparked joy for you? Do you still partake in such activities or anything similar now? Our interests early on in life speak volumes about our authentic nature and tendencies. Mute them now, and you will stay disconnected from fullness at your own risk. If others think you should “grow up” or “fit in”, then question back why they are not still childlike. Why are they so busy being bossy instead of simply enjoying the fun moments in life? Control sadly supersedes fun for far too many, and conformity constricts contentment.
The world is waiting for you, exactly as you are.
-Beth Santos
Please do not keep the world waiting any longer. We need and want you for you, not you as some cheap knock-off of someone else. Explore what makes you your best you. Embrace your true truth, and channel more authenticity empathetically and emphatically.
Maybe it is wise. Maybe it is dumb. Time will tell.