jaunty vs. diffident
jaunty (adjective) – having or expressing a lively and self-confident manner; smartly trim; a stylish or spirited confidence
diffident (adjective) – lacking confidence in one’s own ability, worth, or fitness; timid; shy; restrained or reserved in manner, conduct, etc.
Embody feeling jaunty; avoid unnecessary flaunties.
Make a difference; avoid diffidence.
When you are confident, you need less validation.
You can proceed without external confirmation.
Trust your gut.
Skip the ruts.
No ifs, ands, or buts.
However, remember to toe the very fine line
between what is benign and what is malign.
You may not always be nice to all whom you cross.
Tough love can be rough but you may need to toss
Constructive feedback to help others grow.
At least you confidently chose to show.
Did they listen, or did they contract?
We do not control how they react.
May your steps be filled with pep.
May you be the universe’s great rep.
Life will test you plenty, probably daily.
Put the wind behind you; fill your sailies.
Maybe it is wise. Maybe it is dumb. Time will tell.